我們總在日復一日的生活中變得迷失, 慢慢感覺到越來越不像當初的自已,
猶豫, 害怕, 逃避……讓你腐蝕了對生活熱情。
開始覺得自已好“廢柴”
想改變嗎?從現在起就拋棄以下這些弱點, 你就可以撕去“廢柴”這個標籤。
1
猶豫不決
Indecision
比魯莽更糟糕的是猶豫不決。
What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.
像牆頭草一樣搖擺不定的人, 無論其他方面多麼強大, 在生命的競賽中總是容易被那些堅定地人擠到一邊。 雷厲風行難免會犯錯, 但比什麼也不敢做強。 懷特·黑德說:“畏懼錯誤就是毀滅進步。 ”
Those who sways with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall, no matter how powerful , are always easy to be defeated by those who has a strong belief. Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes, however, is better than doing nothing. "The fear of error is the destruction of progress," said Whitehead.
2
拖延
Procrastination
很多時候拖延就是逃避問題和懶惰。
Most of the time procarstination is to escape from a problem and laziness.
著名思想家羅曼·羅蘭說:“懶惰是很奇怪的東西, 它讓你以為那是安逸, 是休息, 是福氣;但實際上它所給你的是無聊, 是倦怠, 是消沉。 ”
The famous thinker-Romain Rolland said “Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is a blessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.”
3
三分鐘熱度
Brief period of enthusiasm
世界上有80%的失敗都源於半途而廢。
80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.
幾乎所有的人都有過“雄心勃勃地制定計劃, 心灰意冷地放棄計畫”的經歷。
Most of people had the eperience of making plans ambitiously,and then had to give up in despair.
4
害怕拒絕
Fear of rejection
厚重而脆弱的自尊
Heavy and fragile self-esteem.
大多數時候, 我們在人際關係中感受到的“痛”, 都和“感到被拒絕”有關。
Most of the time,the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with"you think you were rejected".
5
自我設限
Self-handicapping
殺死自己的潛能力
Kill your latent ability.
拉羅什富科說:平庸的人總是在抱怨自己不懂的東西。
La Rouchefoucauld said: mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand.
6
逃避現實
Escape from reality
逃避現實者更願意營造一個屬於自己的小世界。
Escapists prefer to create their own little world.
人的悲劇在於眼高手低。
People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.
7
總找藉口
Excuses
錯不在我。
It is not my fault .
人一旦犯了錯,第一反應常常是自我辯護。
Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.
8
恐懼
Fear
謹小慎微的且懦弱。
Timid and cowardly.
9
拒絕學習
Refuse to learn
你不是寂寞,只是不想學習。
You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.
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錯不在我。
It is not my fault .
人一旦犯了錯,第一反應常常是自我辯護。
Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.
8
恐懼
Fear
謹小慎微的且懦弱。
Timid and cowardly.
9
拒絕學習
Refuse to learn
你不是寂寞,只是不想學習。
You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.
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