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我們總在日復一日的生活中變得迷失, 慢慢感覺到越來越不像當初的自已,

猶豫, 害怕, 逃避……讓你腐蝕了對生活熱情。

開始覺得自已好“廢柴”

想改變嗎?從現在起就拋棄以下這些弱點, 你就可以撕去“廢柴”這個標籤。

1

猶豫不決

Indecision

比魯莽更糟糕的是猶豫不決。

What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.

像牆頭草一樣搖擺不定的人, 無論其他方面多麼強大, 在生命的競賽中總是容易被那些堅定地人擠到一邊。 雷厲風行難免會犯錯, 但比什麼也不敢做強。 懷特·黑德說:“畏懼錯誤就是毀滅進步。 ”

Those who sways with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall, no matter how powerful , are always easy to be defeated by those who has a strong belief. Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes, however, is better than doing nothing. "The fear of error is the destruction of progress," said Whitehead.

2

拖延

Procrastination

很多時候拖延就是逃避問題和懶惰。

Most of the time procarstination is to escape from a problem and laziness.

著名思想家羅曼·羅蘭說:“懶惰是很奇怪的東西, 它讓你以為那是安逸, 是休息, 是福氣;但實際上它所給你的是無聊, 是倦怠, 是消沉。 ”

The famous thinker-Romain Rolland said “Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is a blessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.”

3

三分鐘熱度

Brief period of enthusiasm

世界上有80%的失敗都源於半途而廢。

80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.

幾乎所有的人都有過“雄心勃勃地制定計劃, 心灰意冷地放棄計畫”的經歷。

Most of people had the eperience of making plans ambitiously,and then had to give up in despair.

4

害怕拒絕

Fear of rejection

厚重而脆弱的自尊

Heavy and fragile self-esteem.

大多數時候, 我們在人際關係中感受到的“痛”, 都和“感到被拒絕”有關。

Most of the time,the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with"you think you were rejected".

5

自我設限

Self-handicapping

殺死自己的潛能力

Kill your latent ability.

拉羅什富科說:平庸的人總是在抱怨自己不懂的東西。

La Rouchefoucauld said: mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand.

6

逃避現實

Escape from reality

逃避現實者更願意營造一個屬於自己的小世界。

Escapists prefer to create their own little world.

人的悲劇在於眼高手低。

People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.

7

總找藉口

Excuses

錯不在我。

It is not my fault .

人一旦犯了錯,第一反應常常是自我辯護。

Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.

8

恐懼

Fear

謹小慎微的且懦弱。

Timid and cowardly.

9

拒絕學習

Refuse to learn

你不是寂寞,只是不想學習。

You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.

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錯不在我。

It is not my fault .

人一旦犯了錯,第一反應常常是自我辯護。

Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.

8

恐懼

Fear

謹小慎微的且懦弱。

Timid and cowardly.

9

拒絕學習

Refuse to learn

你不是寂寞,只是不想學習。

You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.

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